Do women test men?

Hell yes!

I used to deny it. Actually I didn’t originally do it. In all honesty there was a time in my life where if a guy liked me, I’d pretty much like him (there is nothing sadder than “I love you because you love me”). That stage of my life is well and truly over. 

So now- do I test men? Yes. Do I realise I’m doing it? No. It just happens. It’s second nature, and I often don’t realise it’s happening until the guy passes (or fails) the test and I notice.

How do women test guys? Well guys….you know when you are going out with a girl and she seems great, relaxed, funny, sweet, and then….this weird almost pyscho, bossy little crone appears out of no where? Or she throws a temper tantrum, tells you she’s still dating other guys, not letting you get any further, pretty much anything that seems out of character, and a little unsettling?
That’s the testing

Here’s a cool thing though. She just wants to see if you can handle her, and her moods, thoughts, plans, without freaking out. Handle it right and that crone disappears. Because girls know if you hang around for thart bit you must really like her- otherwise you’ll leave (and they’ll probably say you were an insensitive jerk)

So, what if there never is a test?

If you haven’t felt them test you it’s for one of two reasons: they didn’t need to because you’ve already strongly established your strength,self control, or what ever it is they want to make sure you have, OR because they really don’t care, cos they are not that into you.

This isn’t what EVERY woman does. and it’s not like we have a big rule book that tells us to do it- it’s a automatic thing that girls who know they are good value as partners do without thinking. And they’ll rarely admit they even do it. But they do. I’ll admit I do. And those guys who pass the test? They can pretty much do anything after that. I’m sold

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