BREAKFAST: How to pick up your relationship after an affair

Yesterday I spoke on Breakfast with Paul Henry about how to rebuild a relationship after there has been cheating.
Many people often say that they’d break up with thier partner if they ever found they were cheating, but once in that situation, they find it can be a little more complicated than that. If you are [...]

How Passionate is Your Marriage?

For many people the two words passion and marriage only exist in that sultry honeymoon period right at the beginning or even worse, it’s nothing more than a fantasy on our screens, played by hollywood beauties with real love lives so pitifully awful we’ll forgive their outstanding figures and the fact they can at least [...]

Is there ever an ok form of cheating?

I mentioned on twitter yesterday that one of the most common phrases people use to find my site is “why won’t my wife have sex with me” or some other slight derivative. I wasn’t surprised really- I think men are often perplexed when they find the sex has dropped of and can’t work out what’s [...]

ADVICE: Why did my lover lie to me?

I have been having an affair for 3 years and my boyfriend kept pressuring me
to leave my husband for him. Well, I left my husband but found out the guy I
was having the affair with had bought a farm with a girl he had been seeing
on the side. When I confronted him he originally [...]

My wife won’t have sex with me.

 

 
Hi Rachel,
My wife has deprived me of sex for the past five weeks now and she does that every now and then. she is not at all in the mood of having sex and I’m starving. I don’t have money to visit a brothel. could you please let me know if there are some girls [...]

How to help your husband have an affair

I spoke on TVNZ’s Breakfast on Thursday about the five things that you can do to help your husband have an affair
 
Of course it’s not an inclusive list, and it’s the things you shouldn’t do as hopefully most of us don’t plan to have affairs as a regualr part of the relationship.
There was one thing [...]

Can marriage survive infidelity?

The general consensus is if your partner cheats, you leave. However many couples survive the incidence of infidelity and find it makes them a better, stronger couple for it.
In the end whether you stay or go is completely up to you. If your partner has cheated it is often at the end of a long [...]

So, why aren’t we having sex?

Long term relationships often fall into patterns where sex frequency either slows down or grinds to a slow halt. Sometimes it happens after an event such as having a baby, or the loss of a parent or close friend. Situational change can cause both people to feel like the dynamic has changed and there is [...]

Which person will I choose?

Can you love more than one person at the same time?
Of course.
Should you?
well polyamorists would argue yes. But then their lifestyle is about full disclosure, telling each other about the relationships. They live in a relationship that is about the dynamics of everyone involved- not just one person sharing their heart with two people thinking [...]

Rachel Goodchild’s Good Advice: Is my relationship salvagable?

Rachel Goodchild’s Good Advice this morning on Sunrise
For those of you who aren’t on broadband….
Me and my partner have been dating for 4 going onto 5 years now, he was 18 and i was 22 when we first started dating now that he is 21 and i am now 25 we are always in each others faces [...]

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