Is there ever an ok form of cheating?
January 31, 2010 by Rachel Goodchild
Filed under Couples and Partnerships, Infidelity, Sex and Sexuality, sex
I mentioned on twitter yesterday that one of the most common phrases people use to find my site is “why won’t my wife have sex with me” or some other slight derivative. I wasn’t surprised really- I think men are often perplexed when they find the sex has dropped of and can’t work out what’s [...]
The Cake Eaters: Having it and Eating it Too
December 20, 2009 by Rachel Goodchild
Filed under Sex and Sexuality, sex
I think I have become too used to the fast paced slickness of big budget movies. I’ve been to quite a few of them this year. So The Cake Eaters, which is set in small town America and is about three men (a father and his two sons) and their love lives, was a huge [...]
I don’t think I want sex with my boyfriend anymore- help?
December 7, 2009 by Rachel Goodchild
Filed under Couples and Partnerships, Sex and Sexuality, relationships, sex
My partner and I have been together for almost four years and its a really
good relationship, except for one thing, sex. After the ‘honeymoon’ period
iv stopped craving sex as often, however my partner (being male) still has
cravings for it. We had a fight this morning about him wanting sex, but i
was tired and in no [...]
GIRL ASKS: How do I find out if a girl is into me?
December 5, 2009 by Rachel Goodchild
Filed under Sex and Sexuality, sexuality
I’m 16 and I consider myself lesbian. I’ve only ever been with one girl in
my life in a 8 month relationship that never ended working out. The thing is
I really want a girlfriend but I have no idea when a new girl I meet is just
being friendly or actually in to me. I never want [...]
Noisy Sex: Just how appealing is it?
November 24, 2009 by Rachel Goodchild
Filed under Sex and Sexuality, sex
So you like to make a bit of noise huh? For some a bit of noise during sex indicates interest, but what happens when the neighbours think it’s just a little TOO noisy?
A woman in the UK has just lost an appeal after neighbours complained about her sex habits. I’ve heard of other stories of [...]
GIVEAWAY- Write a haiku and win
October 27, 2009 by Rachel Goodchild
Filed under Beautiful You, Inner Beauty, Sex and Sexuality, sex
I have plans. Sometimes it may not look it, but I DO have plans when it comes to what I giveaway, or the contests I run.
And then sometimes a gem comes my way- and I have to do something with it
I was sent a link to a fabulous blog post- which was a collection of [...]
Airing Dirty Laundry
October 26, 2009 by Rachel Goodchild
Filed under Couples and Partnerships, Sex and Sexuality, abuse and violence, sexuality
A really interesting row broke out on a friend’s facebook page tonight. She was talking about how frustrated she was that a guy who had deeply hurt her was still on a dating site they had met on- and that any attempt to warn people about him was met with reactions that she was being [...]
ADVICE: Why did my lover lie to me?
October 23, 2009 by Rachel Goodchild
Filed under Couples and Partnerships, Infidelity, Sex and Sexuality, sex
I have been having an affair for 3 years and my boyfriend kept pressuring me
to leave my husband for him. Well, I left my husband but found out the guy I
was having the affair with had bought a farm with a girl he had been seeing
on the side. When I confronted him he originally [...]
The D.VICE Roadtest: The Mia Lipstick Vibrator
October 23, 2009 by Rachel Goodchild
Filed under Sex and Sexuality, sex
This one is for the girls – and is so cute!
If you’d like one, please just use the form below (to keep it confidential) Don’t need a reason- but you do need to be prepared to anonymously write about it after you’ve tried it out.
ENTER BELOW- ENTRIES CLOSE THURSDAY 26TH OCTOBER
Mia Lipstick Vibrator
Mia is [...]
How do you bring up using a sex toy with your partner?
October 17, 2009 by Rachel Goodchild
Filed under Sex and Sexuality, sex
The first road test with D-vice is about to be sent out, with the LAYA vibrator going to a couple who have never used a sex toy before.
It can be a difficult thing to suggest the use of a sex toy -especially if you’ve been in a relationship for a long period of time together and [...]

