Is He About To Dump Me?

You’ve got a funny feeling your date is about to dump you but you can’t quite put your finger on it. You know you don’t want him to. Maybe you are just imagining it because you’re feeling insecure and silly. It can be so hard to tell! However there are some pretty common signs- so [...]

Do women test men?

Hell yes!
I used to deny it. Actually I didn’t originally do it. In all honesty there was a time in my life where if a guy liked me, I’d pretty much like him (there is nothing sadder than “I love you because you love me”). That stage of my life is well and truly over. 
So [...]

Hooked on the love drug?

Mmmm crushes. You know that small fancying that develops in a wee obsession- not enough to get you accused of being a bunny boiler, but enough to get your heart leaping if you see them, your smile hitting your face for hours on end if they text, email or even “ask you out”
But are some [...]

Which person will I choose?

Can you love more than one person at the same time?
Of course.
Should you?
well polyamorists would argue yes. But then their lifestyle is about full disclosure, telling each other about the relationships. They live in a relationship that is about the dynamics of everyone involved- not just one person sharing their heart with two people thinking [...]

Ever had a star crossed lover experience?

I know some people in life tend to walk up to doors, and if the door isn’t flung open on their arrival, they’ll just keep on walking to a door that is.
I’m not. I tend to have a goal and keep on hitting at those doors in front of my until I get it nudged [...]

Beating the break up blues

The other day a friend asked me if I could add him to Skype to make it easier for us to discuss a meeting we had been to. We then laughed at how many ways we were able to connect with each other- not only could we pick up a phone and chat, we were [...]

Breaking Up is Hard to Do

I met up with a guy I dated earlier in the year last weekend. We didn’t part on bad terms in the first place, but I had said I would need some time with us not talking for a bit before we got back to being just mates. This is because he is the king [...]

Oh hang on a bit- I’l just go check my dating rules…

When I left my marriage three years ago (the anniversary date is next week sometime.) I really had no idea how dating worked anymore. Being out of it for ten years, and not even thinking about how the world may have changed during that time, let alone me, meant I often felt I had arrived [...]

Can you handle the jandal? I can’t!

I blogged yesterday about getting a backlash on my article about putting a bit of effort into looking good long after you’ve got your man. Apparently it’s an old fashioned concept and not accepting how far we’ve come, and all that. I actually used to think that too a little. Til I worked out it [...]

Romance and the rules when planning to stand someone up

To be fair, my rules for how to stand up someone is going to be a little biased tonight. Because tonight I was stood up. Which is ok- I went to the thing I was going to anyway (more on that later) and I enjoyed myself.
What gets me is ME. I have been stood up [...]

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