How to buy your wife a sex toy

Before we go much further I need to make a confession. This blog is called how to buy your wife a sex toy but actually it’s MORE about how to NOT buy your wife a sex toy.
I’m currently giving away a vibrator to someone who is prepared to comment on how they found it, in [...]

Looking after your sex toys

 
Ok. I got a funny story in my inbox tonight and I felt I had to share it with you. I’ve already written about my own experience with sex toys (or lack of them) and I’m very excited about the giveaways we are going to be doing soon with D-vice, giving sex toys away to [...]

Should celibate Christians masturbate?

I became a christian at seventeen. I had gone to Sunday School and after a friend committed suicide at 17 I became rather scared of death. In fact I became a christian in the back seat of my boyfriend’s car- we were about to have sex, and he pulled out a condom, and I suddenly [...]

Sex toys for women

Shape your arms and… well… 
Someone sent me the above link – it’s a real product that is designed to make women’s arms toned and lovely- but it is also a wee bit suggestive! (And funny!)
I spoke on Sunrise this morning about a woman who wants to have an affair as her husband doesn’t want to [...]

Oh well blow that!

I have a peculiar love for all things odd and weird in sexual “appliances” So imagine my delight when I came across The Blowguard- a tool to use for both safety and increased fun when giving your man a blow job. To be honest, I thought the reviewer on THIS article did such a great [...]

Having sex just the way you like it.

If everything else is going well in your relationship, but you feel your needs aren’t being met in the bedroom, perhaps it’s time for a little chat with your partner. Of course the idea of talking over the issues of this topic can feel a little self conscious and personal, leaving often easier just to [...]

Sex Play, Vibrators and room in my bedside drawer

When you get married at 24, the notion you are going to one day write a sex and relationships blog is the furthest from your mind. Mind you. I can assure you, writing a sex and relationships blog with sex toys as the central theme, was certainly not first and foremost thing in my mind until [...]

Meeting an Internet Date for the First Time

my book Eighty Eight Dates is full of people who throw common sense out the window and find themselves in the mist of a funny or disastrous situation.
A court case currently running in New Zealand tells of a woman who invited a man she had met that night, after talking for several weeks, home for [...]

Sample story from Eighty Eight Dates:Set to Vibrate

I couldn’t believe my luck when this gorgeous girl I was talking to agreed to meet me. We decided to meet for a coffee in a cafe we both had said we liked. I got there first and she arrived a few moments later. She came in carrying a big handbag which she put down [...]